Saturday, January 07, 2012
Saturday, October 29, 2011
Time Flies
Tuki is 4 months already! Holding her pacifier, turning over onto her back from her stomach then turning again onto her back and even scrolling the screens on both our laptops and droids.
She has amazing gross motor skills. I bought her a walker shaped like a car last week because she moves objects so well with her hands. Of course she can't reach the floor with her legs yet but, the walker allows her to sit up.
See, at 4wks she was holding her head up really well. The walker strengthens and improves her core, spine and neck stability. In it she's able to turn her head to see around her. She can easily watch me working and not get antsy when I get up to go prepare her bottle.
We are feeding her Beechnut Stage 1 cereals of rice and oatmeal with a spoon now, too. She really likes hers mixed with warmed pear juice over milk.
Sometimes her Daddy lets her spin his turntables and play his keyboards when he's working. She is identifying how her actions causes affects. Her face be so serious while she's at his workstation. Lol.
Before we know it we'll be baby-proofing the house and office!

Wednesday, September 07, 2011
Yoga On The Road
Tuesday, August 02, 2011
I Can Be A Better Me
Galatians 5:1 Stand fast therefore in the liberty by which Christ has made us free, and do not be entangled again with a yoke of bondage. NKJV #Bible http://j.mp/g14dUl
I started self reflecting last month on the 18th, my oldest daughter's 25th birthday. Since I am in the Diaspora, two days account for my observance of events making dusk on that day, my entry into the fast.
What was confirmation is one daily verse from that week speaking on yokes. I've changed a lot since a year has passed with pregnancy and birth. I still felt that "industry anger" and now its time to let it go.
Industry anger has been good to me though. It made me persistent, gave my drive for success fuel and allowed me to attain accolades no other female rapper in my city has received. So, why is it an issue you ask? Well, its roots are in bitterness. I don't have to explain any further.
This Fast of Tammuz is for walls being breeched, God's forsight being misconscued and temples being destroyed. My walls are being reinforced, His voice is heard clearer and my temple has been reconstructed to fit the additions of new purposes. Oh how fitting and timely this scripture was and still is.
It takes 21 days to shift a habit. I'll take that and shift my spirit. With only 7 days left, I've already experienced the rewards of redirection. Everything that is of me has profited in some form or another. This includes my businesses, family and physical well being.
Surely this is my season to embrace and walk in a higher level of greatness.
For a clearer, easier understanding of the Fast of Tammuz, Three Weeks and Fast of Av go here.
For more info on Judaism go to www.JewFAQ101.org
For a precise Hebrew calendar go to www.HebCal.com
Shalom
Sunday, July 24, 2011
Happy B-Day, Big Brother. I Miss You!
Monday, July 11, 2011
Yummmy in My Tummy!
Blogger Points: Smothered Lamb Chop - Steamed Brocolli and Twice Cooked Rice. Yuuummmm! I'll be blogging how I cooked the lamb chop again soon! 6-22-11
purchased the lamb chops from Whole Foods. went again this week to get more so i can share my step for step cooking instructions. yes, lamb is DELICIOUS!!
Pro DJ's Wifey Life...
Blogger Points: Life as a Professional DJ's Wife. His life never slows down. Even when I was in labor, I was just fine with him going to work. As his brand manager and booking agent, I never let personal matters interfere with my 15%. My first day back in the Man Cave and the first thing I needed to do was find a place to put Tuki's play bouncer. Yes, those are his turntable cases. I make it do what it do.
Generational Blessings...
Blogger Points: Maternal Generations: No.3 presenting No.1 No.4.2 aka "Tuki". My Grandmother, Katherine Johnson is No.1. I am her 3rd decendent, No. 3, and Tuki aka Victoria Di'Artrionne aka No. 4.2, is her second 4th decendent through this branch. My oldest daughter, Jasmine Ne'Cole, is No. 4, her first 4th decendent.
Yeah, you got it, like "Kids Next Door".
Purpose...
Blogger Points: Swaddled Up: 6 Days Old - Always take time to daydream about what you have accomplished. You can learn alot simply from observing your own life experiences. In most cases, you will see something you didn't before, thus allowing Wisdom to build inside yourself. 6-20-11

i read over my journal entries from this time in 2009 and last year in 2010.
6-2-2009:
(Laying in bed at home)
"God's GRACE - His unmerited favore, power to do and be what I was created to do and be. Ephesians 2:8-9"
6-13-10:
(Laying in the grass alongside Barton Springs Pool)
"Tho many folly in youthfulness and rate good/bad by it - they, too will face it's escape and die by the lack of it if not in it. I know who I am and whose I am. Thankful for Your protection, Father. The devil comes to steal, kill and destroy - You come to bring everlasting life. Life is beautiful - I am beautiful. I AM LIFE!"
6-10-11:
(Laying in Pre Antum room bed)
"Been admitted to hospital. Effaced at 50%. Braxton-Hicks are painful. I had a Dr's appt at 10am - seen at 10:50, admitted into St. David's at 12:30pm. The Braxtons are referred to as 'irritation' and can be measured by the monitor now. Nice room. Nurses cool. Was given an anti-anxiety med. About to take an Ambien for peaceful sleep. I'm actually quite tired and ready. Won't be home until after Vicki is born. God is Good. Amen. :-)"
from my journal recordings, during this season i am well aware of who I AM and what my PURPOSE is. i remind myself to stay focused and not let the things of this world distract me from those facts. in looking at the previous two years of what i was thinking, i know today, my purpose He had all planned out, included bringing forth life. whats really interesting is there were no other entries between the 2009 and 2010 dates. they were back to back entries almost to the date.
its good for me to look at my journals and note my mentality and accomplishments. i gain so much wisdom from recording my life cycles and revisiting them. i encourage you to do the same.
Eating Good - Oxtails
Blogger Points: Fresh oxtails stewed with white potatoes, cut collard greens & Jiffy blueberry ho-cake slices. 5-27-11
so i went to visit my girly-friend, Ashley. her roommate started cooking oxtails, rice, brocolli and cornbread. Ash and i had been in their shared living room area watching movies, snacking and just enjoying ourselves for the past 4-5 hours before she came into the kitchen. we let her join in with our talking. with my being almost 36 weeks pregnant at the time, i was welcome to meeting other young women with goals and a good future planned for themselves like me. Ash was graduating from UT that weekend and so was her roommate. there was so much to sit and talk about.
we sat around the living room talking, laughing. looking at our Facebook photos and just being girls. Ash's roommate continuted going back and forth between the living room and kitchen. of course, when we saw her pull out the oxtails, we got excited. we talked about how long its been since either of us have had oxtails. you know my pregnant self was super excited as the apartment started smelling tasty.
well, Ash's roommate announced that she would not be sharing her food with us after she finished cooking. she said something about not having enough for us then she sat down in the living with her plate and ate. she then said she was expecting guests over for dinner. they never showed up. in any case, Ash and i ate some salad and continued fellowshipping with her.
after eating with Ash, i texted my hubby to come pick me up, i told him about the oxtails. you can imagine the look he had on his face while i was recounting how my tummy was growling. i had him drive me to Fiesta immediately so i can purchase my own. i also picked up some frozen collard greens and fresh organic potatoes. the next morning, a friday, i put those oxtails on, cut up those potatoes and let the collard greens thaw. hubby had to DJ out of town for the weekend so Ash was coming over to keep me company.
that package of oxtails i purchased from Fiesta was exactly what Ash's roommate had purchased. my package yielded a full pot of meat and the potatoes made it on point! my hubby is from Georgia and was feeling those oxtails before he left for the weekend. nothing like a good homecooked meal.
Ash and i had a blast that entire weekend eating those oxtails. next time i cook them, i'll blog each step as this pot was good, good, good!
New Life
back on november 4, 2010...
me: (calls hubby) babes, i'm at HEB getting a pregnancy test. we missed our period last month.
him: we did?
me: well, i did. (giggle)
him: okay. so, yeah, see what's up.
me: i'll call you back when i get the results
him: okay.
me: love you
him: lubba dub
me: (giggle)
i purchase the HEB brand, single pack, pee on the stick. after comparing to the E.P.T. brand, its a matter of getting results. the HEB brand will do just fine. besides that, E.P.T. doesn't have a single pack, pee stick.
i get home, drink some water, take a shower, put some relaxing clothes on then pee on the stick. i place the stick face up on the side of the tub. the results should be evident in about 3 minutes, till then, i'll check my emails, update a few client's websites and set up those automated promo status updates i been meaning to do since last week.
after checking my emails, i checked the pee stick. it reads positive. well, i knew something was different. been craving that Golden Fried Chicken all week and Lord knows i don't eat fried fast food like that.
me: (calls hubby back)
him: so whats up?
me: its saying positive. we pregnant.
him: (giggles) ah, yeah?
me: (giggles) yep. (big cheesy grin)
him: i'll be home in a few hours.
me: okay, daddy. love you, babes.
him: hey, i love you, too.
babes get home, he saw the positive generic pee stick and insisted we go to HEB and get the name brand to make extra sure. its his first and my second in 25 years so i understood. we get the double pack E.P.T. brand. when we get back to the house i decide i'll take the test with my first morning urine for good measure.
the next morning...
me: okay, its pee pee time
him: (gets out bed, walks to bathroom with me)
me: (looks at him while i pee on the stick)
stick says positive about 2 minutes later...
me: its positive, you're a daddy (big smile)
him: you sure those things are working?
me: well, hell, you bought the double pack. you wanna pee on the second stick?
(we both bust out laughing at the idea alone of him trying to get his first morning pee on that little, thin ass stick)
i gave him a kiss while we tried to keep his aim straight. we were still laughing. i went into the kitchen to drink some more water. i'll use the second stick on my next pee pee break. we both went to our office desks and started working. about 30 minutes or so later, i bring the second stick back to him; "positive".
Tuesday, November 02, 2010
Screw Your Pink Ribbon

Dedicated to the more than 10,000 women under the age of 40 who will be diagnosed this year alone The SCAR Project is an exercise in awareness, hope, reflection and healing. The mission is three-fold: Raise public consciousness of early-onset breast cancer, raise funds for breast cancer research/outreach programs and help young survivors see their scars, faces, figures and experiences through a new, honest and ultimately empowering lens.
The SCAR Project subjects range from ages 18 to 35 and represent the often overlooked group of young women living with breast cancer. (Breast cancer is the leading cause of cancer deaths in young women ages 15-40). They journey from across America and the world to be photographed for The SCAR Project. Nearly 100 so far. The youngest 18.
Although Jay began shooting The SCAR Project primarily as an awareness raising campaign he was not prepared for something much more immediate . . . and beautiful: “For these young women, having their portrait taken seems to represent their personal victory over this terrifying disease. It helps them reclaim their femininity, their sexuality, identity and power after having been robbed of such an important part of it. Through these simple pictures, they seem to gain some acceptance of what has happened to them and the strength to move forward with pride.”















